Games & Ways to Play
Once you are ready to lock up, you have many ways to play! Whether you are solo or with one or more partners, there are a lot of ways to make this fun for all participants. Feel free to use any of these to enjoy yourself!
Also, take a peek at the bottom for playing with chastity over long distance.
It is sometimes difficult for a submissive to find a Dominant who will indulge a chastity fetish. It seems that a female Dominant keyholding for a male submissive is the rarest combination (Although there are many women who do enjoy this type of BDSM relationship! It's just that there are far more submissive males into this than dominant females). Here are some fun games that can be played solo that still allow proper denial of a submissive's pleasure.
In this game, you take the keys for your chastity device and put them in some type of water container, then place it in the freezer. The larger the container, the better, as it will take longer to escape! The water container can be placed in a freezer or be left outside during a cold winter night.
For those who are very daring, you can use a rain barrel or large container to collect rainwater and leave the key at the bottom of the container. Especially fun to use at the beginning or end of the winter when the temperature is all over the place!
Games with Partner(s)
Having a partner or partners in chastity play can make everything significantly better. In addition, the Dominant can reap the rewards of focused attention, the ability to assign chores, controlling the pleasure of a submissive, and denying one of their pleasure while demanding their own pleasure. Here are some games to consider while playing with one or more partners.
The Dominant can leave it up to chance at how long the submissive stays locked. By making up fun games, there is no limit to how fun/cruel the rules can get! Here are some ideas:
- Make a custom roulette wheel with wheeldecide.com
- Use dice to determine the duration of the lockup. Could be hours, days, weeks, months, or whatever you want!
- Placing marbles in a bag could work nicely. Start with 4 black marbles and 1 white marble. Every day, allow the submissive to choose a marble from the bag. If he or she gets black, the marble is removed and he or she can try again the next day. When he or she gets a white marble, reward him or her and put all the marbles back in. Maybe consider adding another black marble every time the submissive wins? Allow the submissive a ruined orgasm in exchange for not putting in another black marble upon winning maybe?
- Every night, allow the submissive out of chastity to play. Edge the submissive by bringing him or her to the brink of an orgasm, and then stop and flip a coin or roll a die. If the result wins, allow the submissive to orgasm. If not, calm down the submissive and put him or her back in chastity.
Misc. Games & Ways to Play
How to Play with Chastity Over Long Distance
This miniature tutorial will show you how to play with Chastity over a long distance without mailing keys or making the keys unavailable for a lengthy amount of time.
- Chastity Device
- Mini-Padlock with Key
- Realtor's Lockbox
- Messaging app such as text messages, WhatsApp, Snapchat etc. that can send photos
The Dominant and submissive take the following steps:
- The submissive sets the combination of the Realtor's Lockbox to a random combination without looking
- The submissive sends photos of the lock combo to the Dominant without looking. The submissive repeats sending photos until the Dominant confirms he or she can read the combination clearly.
- The submissive deletes all photos from the application photo folder and deletes the conversation with the Dominant, so no evidence of the combination is left on the submissive's phone. (your experience may vary based on the app being used. Snapchat auto-deletes so that's one way to be sure the submissive loses the combo)
- The submissive closes the Realtor's Lockbox with the keys inside, then scrambles the combination up (again, without looking at the combo)
- From this point, the submissive is locked without knowing the combination, and the Dominant has full control over the submissive's access to the keys
And that's it!